Hi Anita,
Talking toh his mother is not an issue but she already said now she will not meet me as everything is finalised somewhere else. It was very difficult for me but I even involved my mother into this matter so that she can help us convince my boyfriends mother. She is not listening to anyone of us. I am feeling as if my boyfriend is leaving all hopes. But I am still hopeful that I can save him from all this. Still I will try to follow your first suggestion.

Answer to your another question is that yes I will speak to them over phone. That’s the only thing I can do. May be if they get to know that the guy has an affair and loves some one else and this wedding is just a compromise. They might not want their daughter to go through all this and take some step.