Dear Sam:

I didn’t understand what your friend said: “because the lack of drama and excitement in my life is maybe being mistaken as loss” – What does it mean to you?

It is good that you talked to a friend a little and that you significantly limited your interactions with your mother. The fact that you feel relief as a result is an indication that it is the right thing for your well being.

In your last line you wrote that you felt relaxed- as a result of talking to your friend?

Post anytime.

anita