To anita :

I am a university student and I am in my third year now. I still consider my home wheere my parents live cuz uni life got me living in a dorm. However, I am dying to go home and spend some time where I belong, yet sometimes it is pretty scary to be at home cuz i feel that my mother doesn’t want that and enjoys having some time off without me and my sister. I could undestrand her sometimes and it really hurt me when i read that post of yours cuz my mother was not that lucky when she was my age as she lost her own mother really early and that’s why I tolerate her behaviour cuz I thought of the reason why she is acting this whay and I came up with that and I really feel sorry for her and despite of mistreating me I love her as she is my mum, after all.

To VJ

The thing that you mentioned is one of the few reasons that keep me away from doing that as I believe that if you got a problem and you try to skip it or swept it under the mat it will come back later… anyway, what shall somebody do if the problems are constrantly reoccurring and you can hadle none of them?