Anita:
I will keep you and anyone else updated via this thread. At the moment he is away with his wife on holidays overseas so they aren’t able to physically see each other. The challenge will be when he gets back and after 6 weeks apart they will want to meet, catch up, kiss, express their love and I will be at home managing my want for it not to be happening and practising acceptance, non judgement and let going that she loves more than me and is kissing him damaging our relationship or could it be thought of a like hugging. Interesting times ahead and thanks for your questions and thoughts. Life is better now for the challenges I was previously fairly emotional dead but alive again and feeling the joy and the pain of existence.