Dear jlo5:

Welcome back to your thread. My thoughts regarding your last post after re-reading some of your previous posts on this thread: you are understandably somewhat angry at him and feeling distant in the relationship with him. And his input regarding your online photo seems to me like an effort on his part to achieve two things:

1. To distract from the real issues in the relationship by focus on something irrelevant to the real troubles in his mind and in the relationship. He is comfortable focusing on an irrelevant, emotionally light topic than on the real issues.

2. To point the finger of blame at you: your fault, you did something wrong. And so he keeps safe from looking at his own behavior as a cause for the trouble (in his mind and in the relationship).

anita