Dear nikkilove921:

His promises made you feel safe at the time when you were anxious about your struggle to pay your education in that city you loved. You felt alone there, away from people you were familiar with, family and friends.

His promises then, for consistent, ever lasting love, drew you to him. There was safety there, or so you felt. And so, you developed a strong emotional attachment to him. We become attached to those we imagine mean safety for us.

And you discovered that he does not mean Safety for you. He dropped you alone at night, pregnant and barefoot on the street. He told you things that mean you can not trust him or rely on him.

This is very unfortunate, that he betrayed you, that he promised Safety and delivered Danger instead.

And now that you know that it is Danger that he offers to you and to your baby, what do you do?

anita