Dear Liquidsnake:

So it is a sense of guilt that is troubling you, feeling responsible for her well being, 50%?

Well, what about her 50%? Does she feel that she is 50% responsible for your distress?

The 50%-50% responsibility can be so only if both parties take on the 50% responsibility. If she doesn’t – then what in affect you are doing, is taking 100%.

In other words, you are free to take 0% responsibility for her well being to match her 0%.

And so, you want to walk out- just walk out. You are not responsible to give her any explanation.

What do you think about my math?

anita