Dear Liquidsnake:

I read through your first thread and this one. This is what I understand about the relationship with this woman: she is a relative, currently involved in a business with you. You used to have an emotionally intimate relationship with her, used to be “soulmates” as you put it. There was no sexual relationship with her.

She insisted that you have no friends and spend all your social time with her and you expected the same from her. But she, unlike you, became close to business associates and other friends and even had three dates or visits with another man (but she was not sexual with any one of those friends).

You were very hurt by the fact that she spent time with her friends, that she shared information with them that you believed belonged only to you and her.

You mentioned that she abused you, that she had emotional outbursts.

In her message above, she acknowledges that she has a “short temper” and that she hurt you knowingly.

The last part of her message: ” I WILL BE A NEVER ENDING PEST ONLY.. TO U.. EATING U FROM INSIDE….”-

What does it mean? Is this what it looks like- she threatening to be “a never ending pest, eating you from the inside”?

I don’t understand: you said a few posts ago that you are not afraid of her at all, that she poses no danger to you. But isn’t a … pest eating you from the inside for the rest of your life- isn’t that dangerous? Please explain to me what you believe she meant by being that “never ending pest eating you from the inside”?

And one more thing: her anger outbursts- describe the worst one- what were the things she said to you during that outburst and what did she do during the outburst, what were her actions?

anita