Dear jessv22:

You wrote in your last post, about your boyfriend: “I just do not think he knows the gravity of our friendship”-

If you would like to explain here the “gravity of” your friendship with the other guy, please do:

What was the nature of the emotional intimacy you’ve been having with the other guy for three years? Is that friendship still ongoing presently and had it changed since the breakup with your boyfriend?

I am asking in an effort to understand you and your situation better and see where a better understanding may lead you…?

anita