Dear Midnight:

No, I didn’t at all mean that you were “compromising, that I was closing my eyes to the reality in which I am living – meaning, that my relationship cannot be truly satisfying.” I meant that as a child you compromised with reality, as children do.

I want to send this tid bit before I read the rest of your last post and reply. Once again: there is no evidence I detected that your husband is not good enough to be your husband and that your relationship with him is lacking other than your ROCD symptoms which predate your relationship with him and have nothing to do with him.

anita