Dear Tessa:

You wrote that you don’t know what advice you need. But I did experience something similar, only more from one of your sisters’ position. My sister believed she ” had a perfect childhood” while my childhood was from hell.

If you’d like to answer the following, please do:

It is my understanding that you view your two sisters’ mental and physical illnesses as genetic while you happened to be born without THOSE bad genes. Am I correct?

And it reads to me that you believe that your 28 year old sister bad genetics also involve laziness, poor work ethics and irresponsibility. Am I correct about this as well?

You wrote: ” we grew up in a normal household”- is having a narcissist mother who ” often times acts like a rude 16 year old, starting fights..” part of a “normal household”?

anita