Dear John:

What an interesting and unique share. It makes me think, that indeed, you have an opportunity every day to do something you never did before; make something happen that did not happen before.

You can be a faithful husband. And you can proceed to be the good father you want to be.

Those neuropathways I mentioned, and you mentioned as well, those pathways recorded experiences of the past and those experiences, those pathways get triggered in the present, keeping the past alive that way. We have the very strong tendency to do the things we did before simply because those things are built into our brains.

What you did with the moisture droplets that got caught in the spider web, was something new, something not previously done and recorded in a neuropathway.

Our abilities to do something new is our hope when the same-old-same-old keeps us in dysfunction and distress.

For new things, new pathways!

anita