Dear U:

To move on from your symptoms: “can’t sleep, can’t eat, can’t concentrate on my work and so on”- Try the following, if you’d like:

Write her a letter, post it here if you want, knowing you will not send it to her. In that letter (post) say goodbye to her. Tell her all the HOPES you had, the life you dreamed of having with her, and say goodbye to that dream. Describe that dream in detail, how you viewed life with her. Post it here?

anita