Dear Jessi:

In my effort to attempt to understand your thread topic better I looked up your favorite guru online. In your first post on this website you mentioned Grant Cardone as your favorite guru. Your career is in finance and you are a top performer at your job. You have listened to a lot of audio by Cardone, a motivational speaker in Finance.

I found this website:lehttp: //knowstartup. com/2016/11/10 -success-lessons-from-grant-cardone-for-entrepreneurs/
His ten success lessons are:

“1. Cold calling is not dead…Grant has built a multimillion dollar company through cold calling and he shows that sales practices don’t have to be new and shiny…
2. You need to be known by your effort…become that guy that works harder than anyone else and you will be rewarded.
3. If they can’t help you then they will probably hurt you…Make a list of the people you spend time with and in the right column put an ‘x’ if they can’t or don’t help you.
4. Half of what your parents taught you is holding you back
5. Liking a person is NOT a reason to do business together…Some people are just meant to be friends, not partners.
6. 10(times) everything: Take whatever goal you have and multiply it times 10. Even if you come up short, you will achieve more than you originally planned to.”

There are more, but I will stop here. Do you see a connection between your sharing on this thread, your life experience with sex and relationships, and these 6 sales tactics?

anita