Dear Isra:

So glad you came back with this update! Still and even more so, I am impressed with you, especially you being so young. You observed his behavior, slowly, over time, learned more about who he is and made the decision that you made. Not at all an impulsive decision but a thoughtful one, figuring what will be best for you.

You wrote: “He was looking at me through rose-tinted glasses while I was observing all of his actions and words, and I finally realized he is not the man I would want for a husband years from now.” Keep seeing reality as is; keep learning, over time, who the people in your life are.

“Not sure what to do”- is the title of your thread. Well, now you are sure!

Post anytime, and happy holidays to you too.

anita