Dear blkhwkdwn1:

Some people freak out, sure. But a reasonable person wouldn’t, if you tell him/ her, in a calm voice, that you are only looking for information. No blaming or whining, just gathering information.

I already like her, especially from the exchanges you posted here. Except I would like it if she did initiate texts. Maybe she doesn’t want to … bother you? Maybe she thinks you prefer to initiate texts to her? Didn’t think about this possibility- she doesn’t know that you wish she initiated texting.

Didn’t think of that- a possibility.

anita