Dear Jamie:

Before two kisses with another man, your boyfriend insulted and disrespected you many times. So, first there were insults and disrespect. Stop there- insults and disrespect is unacceptable in a relationship. So whether you are a cheater (title of your thread) is not relevant, in my mind, because I am not passed the insults-and-disrespect phase.

Notice: he insulted and disrespected you before the two kisses. And after. The problem is … that insulting and disrespecting behavior on his part. Deal with that first…?

anita