Dear Jamie:

You wrote: “I am confused whether I should block him… or stay and hope for him to wake up”-

I say: you, dear Jamie, you wake up.

His “insults and down-grading comments” are not for you to get over; they are for you to block. It should not be up to him to make your life insults-free. It should be up to you to block the source of insults and down-grading comments out of your life.

If he moves on with another girl, too bad for her, if she takes such abuse. Do not envy that position, being his girlfriend. Exit it. Be in a relationship with a respectful man instead.

anita