Dear bergie04:

Too bad you were bullied when you were a child and a teenager. Clearly it hurt you a whole lot. I wish it didn’t happen to you.

Most likely, it is possible for you to have a healthy love relationship with your looks. After all, women of all kinds of looks have such relationships. So why not you too.

And women with perfect-like looks have no relationships or unhealthy love relationships.

Question is how you deal with your anxiety which is associated with your looks. Competent psychotherapy will help. Did you consider such?

anita