Dear samira:

* In your last post you wrote: “i mocked him when we were just friends i used to make fun of his over weight just to motivate him for gym”-

It is wrong to mock a person for any reason. It was wrong of you to mock him because he was overweight, and it was wrong of you to mock him for the purpose of motivating him to go to the gym. That was not supportive of you, it was abusive behavior on your part, causing him harm. In the future, please do not mock people for any reason. If you ever have children, please do not mock them, for ANY reason.

* In your last post you wrote: “he touched me evrywhere kissed everywhere now you tell me who is victim?”

You chose to have sexual relations with him (it was still sexual relations without the intercourse itself)- you were not his victim because he didn’t force you. You were sexual with him voluntarily. Be responsible for your choices, your behavior.

* In your last post you wrote: “i am still dying for him waiting for him bcz he made me crazy abt him.”

You were not crazy enough about him to marry him when he offered it to you repeatedly. Now you are crazy because you lost control of him? Because now that he is married he is less likely to give you money for your needs, your brother’s and your mother’s? You lost a source of money, is that it?

anita