That sounds ver acurate, it does seem like he’s built an emotional wall, but how do i bring it down??? I want to be there for him, i want to help him with his depression, how do i make him want to connect more?? Can i ??? You’re completely right. While depressed i looked forward towards building a new life with him in New Zealand or brunei or anywhere, i looked towards that and i feel like ive lost it all, i just love him soooo much i dont know how to get him back