Dear regijones:

I don’t think you can make him want to connect more. His first priority is to feel better. For him, he feels better not being connected to you. So he is choosing that.

Your priority is also to feel better. For you, you will feel better if you got him back-

But he CAN disconnect from you and you CAN NOT get him back. The reason he can disconnect is because all it takes is one person to disconnect- he did and there is nothing you can do about it.

On the other hand, you can’t get him back because it takes two people to get back together- he doesn’t want to and so, you can’t get back together with him all by yourself.

anita