Dear hev,

(and anita and Kat)

I acknowledge your sorrow. You’re so precious.

You never have to wait for love. You do not have to have permission from a man (or anyone) to experience full love. Thank goodness!!

You can be on your own side, have your own back, think yourself is awesome, spend time with yourself, give yourself gifts, support yourself, laugh with yourself. “Hey, sexy!” you can wink at yourself in the mirror.

You will still feel some sadness, of course, (and go ahead and allow yourself to feel it)–because partnership is a natural inclination of human beings. But you won’t have too much time for it, because you’ll be too busy having a blast with yourself!! Ha ha.

When you learn to love yourself (doesn’t happen overnight), then a man (or woman) who would love to join you in that level of being will likely show up. For as long as you reject yourself, the potential significant others you come in contact with are going to follow that (energetic) lead.

In the meantime, while you grow into that self-embracing woman, you can start to look at other human beings–both men and women, of any age and circumstance, whether or not you would think of them romantically–as ‘people who are in your path’, and seek to bless them with your smile and your hello and your listening ear. If you don’t get out much for that–well, hmm, . . . get out some more!! ha ha.

Anyway, I can tell you are a thoughtful and talented woman. Thanks for sharing your struggle–an important one a lot of us totally ‘get’, including me. Bless you.
~Jennifer

• This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by Jennifer Boyatt.
• This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by Jennifer Boyatt.