I agree with you 100%. My mind set was on the end of our relationship & not him & what he was going through at that moment. As the saying goes, hindsight is 20/20. When I arrived at his house that Thursday night, I should have went to him & hugged him, kissed his cheek, comforted him & be the rock that he needed at that time. Instead I stood there, stone cold, with my arms crossed, showing I was closed off, just firing questions at him about me & our relationship instead of offering my ear & supporting him. I was too wrapped up in me & the wedding, relationship, oppose to seeing that he is hurting. I see that now… But now, do I fix this? Can I even fix this? It is going on three weeks without communication. I wanted to leave him alone to get myself strong so that I can be what he needs & not this needy girl. I know he has enough on his plate right now, more than he can handle clearly. It worries me because I don’t feel he has the best support system around him. I know your friends support your decision & are there to make you feel better. Are they feeding into this? Especially the best friend who doesn’t like me? There are so many unknown variables right now. And yes, I know the only person that has the answers is him. But at this time & given his present state of mind, is he thinking more clear? I am sure his work has not eased up in the past couple of weeks.

I just don’t know what to do here! Please help me!