And yes – he could have been feeling unhappy for a while, but is it really our relationship that is making him feel this way or is it all the stress from him job that is affecting his thoughts & feelings. When you become depressed, you are unhappy. Everything around you is negative. It is like a black hole that you are stuck in & no matter how hard you try, you cannot seem to find your way out. You see no light at the end of the tunnel. Could this be the catalyst that is making everything around him unclear & wrong? That is what my mind tends to go too… but that could be just me “self protecting” myself from the possibility of being hurt.

All I do know is that I am not ready to give up on us, however, with depression, I know he needs to help himself & work on him, as I do myself. But I need to find a way to be able to communicate with him & let him know that I care. Tell him that I love him & I will ALWAYS be here for him. We have both said that we take marriage & our commitment seriously. If he has too much going on right now there were many things we could have done. We could have postponed the wedding, cut it down to save money… I could go on & on. But to give up in the state he was in & I am sure, still in to a certain capacity. That is not the time you make life altering decisions. Am I wrong for thinking this way?

What are your thoughts?