Dear Jay-me:

Did you tell him about you worrying too much, that you want to be the best girlfriend, relax and not rush things but have difficulties doing so? Maybe he can help you, being relaxed himself. Without exhausting him, you can get helped by him. Help each other as there are things he needs help from you!

Help and guide each other, be each other’s manual, via ongoing communication. Practice that EAR communicating with him, standing for Empathy, Assertiveness, Respect and help each other.

anita