Hello Tiiiny

You are hurting because the feelings are there and no doubt because he suddenly changed. It’s not your fault though. These things have happened sometimes in relationships we experience where one person just falls out of love at some point. It is very painful for the other partner though because they are so involved in the relationship.

Imagine the two of you tied with red string. Though it has been cut off, the memories of the experience are something your mind and body will take time to process. It will be a bit like experiencing grief in a way – something in life has vanished, a cold, dreary winter is coming and you wonder if things will get better.

They do though. How?

With time. Ask him though what went wrong in person. A text was not a good way to break up at all. Get your closure for real. Go and have a solid talk with him no matter how weird it feels. Get your answers.

Find something in your life to fill the loneliness and despair you feel at this moment. Something to fill the hours atleast.

Then Spring does come and it will get better.

Regards
Nina