Hello Anita,
It’s been hard to not just cut his manipulative words off. I think in a sense I want or need to hear it? I know it is incredibly toxic. But I am not over him and still completely in love. It makes no sense for me to be “inlove” with a poisonous person who broke me down- literally I had no more self-worth, self-esteem when I finally left. Well maybe im not in love with him- but an idea of him? I have realize too, I was very codependent in this manipulative relationship.
Thank you
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