Dear BJ:

I hope you feel better soon enough.

Let’s look closer, if you are willing, into one of the relationships that didn’t work out. You wrote about one of those: “one person didn’t tell me that they were terrified of dogs until after a few dates. when I said i would be there for her if she wanted to over come her fear. What i got in return was ‘Don’t get too attached to them, they don’t last that long'”-

Was that the end of that relationship- her statement that you quoted? What bothered you about the statement she made?

anita