Dear loveguruc:

Feeling like you are losing your mind is not a good thing. I would separate from him as soon as possible, if I was you. It is nice of you to want to help him until “he gets back on his feet”- but paying for that by losing your mind is a bad, bad deal for you.

I don’t see a point in telling him about the other man, and think it can be dangerous for you because he expresses his anger at you abusively.

The fact that he Yells at you regularly is a good-enough reason for you to end the living together arrangement and the relationship ASAP.

anita