Dear 3bunnies2:

I suppose your boyfriend’s attitude during the breakup, when he was hurt, influenced his mother. If they were and are close, maybe he told her things, given her details about the relationship and the breakup that convinced her you are not a good partner for her son.

Your boyfriend is working on his relationship with you even though his mother is not for the relationship anymore. So her attitude is not that powerful, is it?

When you knew her was she a dominant woman who was controlling of her son… ?

anita