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Dear Desmond:
Your girlfriend calls you “stupid” and “many other names”, making a note of it here.
So you’ve been serving a year, more than a year in this prison of abuse. And what was the crime- your crime? Let me see if I understand your crime:
1. Casual flirting with other women while in relationship with her (but not having any physical intimacy with them, nor did you have sexual interactions with them online or on the phone, correct?)
2. Lying to her when interrogated and lying to her so to avoid being interrogated altogether.
3. Getting angry at her after some time during her interrogations and accusations, expressions of her anger, calling you names (how did you express your anger at her, lashing out? Did you call her names, yell at her..?)
Did I get it correctly?
anita