Dear dory82:

Looking at your timeline, seems to me that before 8th Feb, his relationship with the other woman was not solid. On the 8th it was quite solid and he felt safe in it, this is why he told you to “to leave him alone.” Four days later, or before, he was already living with her, solid indeed.

Reads to me like he is very needy of a relationship, and at the same time he also has a wandering eye, so he puts himself in a conflict- needing a relationship and risking it at the same time, then rushing to fix the relationship he betrayed and at the same time forming another, then he settles for whichever happens.

anita