Dear sundeath:

Reads to me like the end of this most recent relationship. If I was you, I would stop efforts to reconcile, and let her be, leave her alone to put her choice into action, next week.

The fighting in the relationship, that aggression is the death of love. When in a relationship both parties need to practice … a zero-aggression-policy. Issues can be resolved peacefully, no matter how distressed either party feels. Practicing EAR: Empathy, Assertiveness, Respect in a relationship is very important.

Practice EAR in your next relationship- that will take work and patience on your part and hers. Evaluating a woman before getting deep into a relationship, evaluating if she is able and willing to be non-aggressive, is most important.

So both- be that non aggressive man in your next relationship and choose a woman who is also non-aggressive.

Post again, anytime. Hope you feel better soon.

* Will be back in hours.

anita