Dear Fenrir:

Although your fear about jinxing the relationship by sharing about it here, although your feeling of fear is real, in reality you are not doing that. In reality, our communication can help you and your relationship.

When you were bullied by your father, it was dangerous to be happy, wasn’t it? Because being happy meant you weren’t careful, and if you weren’t careful about what may trigger his bullying, then you’d be in trouble. So being happy was dangerous, was it?

anita