dear nina,

Thank you for your advice! I’ll certainly try to work on them.

And yes, unfortunately I do feel quite sad and neglected when he is busy and there are days we don’t talk much. I understand that it is inevitable due to our busy schedules, but I have a tendency to feel that “oh this isn’t fair because I’m always here when you need me, yet you can’t be here when I need you”, which I know isn’t the case, but still, these thoughts affect me negatively and I don’t know what I can do about it…