Dear lonelybuddha:

Please, no use of the f-word/ profanity (it is against Guidelines For Sharing in record).

This thing that happened before you got married, eight years ago, I wonder what it is. I suppose you were uncomfortable stating what it was, so you didn’t. But there is no way for me to understand the situation without knowing something about what it was.

You wrote: ” Nobody every seemed uncomfortable (about that thing, 8 years ago), and, in fact, I was frequently the one who would stand up and walk out of the room if it seemed like a compromising situation for me”-

What were those “compromising situations?

anita