Dear dmhomz:

Is it that the two of you were incompatible in that you needed a lot of quiet time, alone or just with her, at home, and she liked going out a lot, being around many people, socializing, being out and about (“go out and party or run around”)

*If you tried to accommodate her in every beginning of the relationship by going out a lot, then it is understandable why you got so tired accommodating her and you retreated to having alone time every time… and will again, if the relationship was to resume.

was that the case?

anita