Hi David thanks for getting back to me. It is frustrating when you want to move on from this past relationship. Can i ask are you still with your current girlfriend?

Anita made a good point to me when i admitted i have a trait to want to fix things in general anf because of this i am trying to fix a broken relationship in my mind instead of focusing on the new healthy relationship. I also can track back to suffering rejection from my dad as achild which could be partly why i struggle with this situation.

A posted called VJ just sent me this on my forum discussion which may help:

you still have the energetic cords (ties) of attachment with this person. These cords are invisible since they are at an energetic level. They are also called as psychic ties.
All you have to do is cut the energetic cords of attachment to get it out from your head so that you can be fully present.

Please go through the below links to know more on what it is and what to do-
(http://ascendedrelationships.com/cutting-energy-cords/)

(http://www.soulconnection.ca/cord-cutting.html)

Calling upon Archangel Michael with his golden sword is a very famous way of cutting negative cords-
(http://www.nikkiboruch.com/how-to-cut-energetic-cords-with-archangel-michael)

There are many ways of doing this. Simply do a web search on “cutting energetic cords of attachment”

Also if you prefer something visual then there are lots of videos on YouTube too.