Anita,

She recognizes the emotion, she just doesn’t allow herself to feel the pain/sadness/hurt. She keeps it in and ignores it.

I’m not saying a breakdown is utterly necessary, but she can’t let go of the past. I told her that if she wanted to let it all out (whenever the time was right) she could and I would be there to help her up. One can’t simply force a breakdown. I am aware. I should have worded things differently. I guess what I am trying to say is that all the feelings she is trying to avoid, could set her free.

I apologize, I meant to say that she doesn’t like to become emotionally attached to other people. Yes we are getting married, but sometimes it can get difficult especially since I am incredibly emotional. So it hurts me seeing her this way because I know deep down she is battling things.