Dear bricklady:

You are welcome and I appreciate the update. Good advice by your therapist, I believe, in line with not putting pressure on him. His recent communication with you is evidence that the no-pressure is working for his benefit and is increasing the revival chances of this relationship.

Planning the weekend is also an excellent idea. Even if the execution of what you plan doesn’t lead to your happiness, the fact in itself that you plan and execute is comforting in itself, gives you a sense of reasonable power/ control over your life.

anita