Dear Samantha:

You are welcome. At one point, you may be in the right state of mind, a “secure headspace”, feeling confident etc. AND ask him directly (although in a casual tone, perhaps, in a friendly, light way) about his feelings for you; his motivations when interacting with you. That is, when you will need that kind of information.

Asking such does not need to be a sign of insecurity but a valid need for information, so that you are equipped to make the choices you need to make (for ex., proceeding with him or availing yourself to a relationship with someone else).

anita