Dear Marissa:

Starting three months ago, Dec 216, this is what you did:

You accused him of cheating based on driving by his house and not seeing his car (no other evidence)

You told his ex that you and him were dating after he specifically asked you not to (and you agreed..)

You disrespected his choice to end the dating relationship by pushing for a second chance.

You engaged in a fight with him and ended it with telling him that you are doe with him and wanted nothing to do with him.

You reached out to him and disrespected, again, his choice (to not respond to you) by blowing up his phone and involving his friends in pressuring him to respond to you.

At this point he is still not responding to you. And you are still interested in a relationship with him. You stated that if you are given a second chance you “wouldn’t make the same mistakes”

My question to you: If you are sure that you will not behave similar to how you already behaved, that you are able to have a loving, healthy relationship with him, why do you need psychotherapy? You are ready NOW, for a healthy relationship, are you?

anita