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Dear Ally:

How to stop being toxic: number 1- stop fighting.

Behave respectfully toward him, practice mutual respect, and that means, no fighting, no aggression. You need to communicate something to him, to get his input? Have a peaceful conversation, a Win-Win interaction.

And so, regardless of how clingy and anxious you feel- don’t proceed to disrespectful behavior, to aggression, covert or overt.

Regarding your clinginess, possessive feelings: we can examine those, if you’d like, and if you do, consider answering this: are you afraid his friends (particularly the one you dislike strongly) will take him away from you; will turn him against you?

anita