Anita

Thanks for posting. In my marriage there were plenty of arguments and lots of anger. Since I saw the destruction of my marriage I have learned to control that part of my personality. My close friends have noticed and commented that I have changed for the better and they don’t feel that I am about to go off the handle at any moment. I have accepted that things needed to change.

In regards to my current relationship I think that she is referring to my wanting to do things all the time. I don’t like sitting still and I enjoy getting out and going places. My girlfriend is most definitely an introvert and does like to stay home at times. She also has a hectic schedule, which I often forget. So I feel that is what she meant. She hasn’t seen the anger side of things.

This relationship I have put in the time to listen, compliment and respect my girlfriend. It is just another change that I am willing to do for her if she’ll have me.

Jeff