Dear Penelope Jones:

Thank you for answering my questions. After reading your last post, I am still not clear, but don’t feel comfortable coming up with more questions. So I’ll proceed without asking.

What is clear is that the two of you have busy schedules. And it is also clear that he does not feel the desire to “move the stars and the moon to be with (you)”, nor does he have the desire to drive to see you anytime soon. If he had that desire, he would have done it already.

What is puzzling to me is that you expect this of him after only two weeks of online communication, one date in which you were disappointed of his looks and followed with a rejection note to him. I asked about your relationship with your parents because I was trying to understand this puzzling dynamic on your part in regard to him.

If I was to try to understand, I will need to know about your previous relationships, as well as, maybe the issues you witnessed in the relationship between your parents- I am thinking there were significant issues there that affected you strongly.

anita