Dear wildoceanflower:

I am sure you are not a saint. No human being is a saint. But if you are honest and loyal, as you are, you deserve an honest and loyal partner.

I am glad to read that you wrote that you “are slowly letting it go”- please do, and then, if and when you get involved again, with a man you didn’t meet yet- make sure he is an honest and loyal man, that he has been honest and loyal before he met you.

There has to be an honest, loyal man in your area, there just… has to be just the one (when you are ready, of course)?

You made my evening when you wrote that I helped you, thank you for stating that! And do post anytime.

anita