Hey Anita Good questions. Things have gone more sour between hubby and I coincidently since the restaurant has been sold-it was actually torn down and re=built. It was just kind of like the glue for us all-except the one that reaped the benefits. I don’t have many close friends-I go to Church some, Bible study some. I’ve just never felt like I fit anywhere, with girls. I guess having the 3 older brothers, I was a bit of a tomboy. I will say that Mother was anorexic and bulimic since she was a teenager till her death in 1989. That has so affected my issues around food, body image. Thats a different ballgame. I could start a library of books. I also will mention that my husband wasn’t ready to leave home when we go married, so we lived beside his Mom (horrors) and Dad and his brother and his first second and third wife for 13 years. It was hell. They are deceased now but that sure has affected us. Argh. What a hellacious marriage. I have been in therapy for 42 years. Starting with a new one Monday. I guess it keeps me out of the suicidal ward. I am releasing the rich brother as best I can. He keeps saying, when we rarely text, that he is so busy. That is bs. He does what he wants to do except see his sister. So I guess he doesn’t want a relationship. Heaven forbid that something should happen to either one of us. Where do I go from here? Just trying to get through each day– some days that is watching a movie on the iPad in a parking lot in my car. Or making the rounds of the stores at night, not really buying anything. Just to get out of the house. I think about volunteering-I had colon surgery a year ago and I never know when my gut is going to go into action. So that affects my life in a big way at times. A huge thank you for showing interest in my situation. I rarely get on Facebook anymore. Its just a downer. Cheers to you and thank you so much for responding.. I am rather close to one brother. He does not want to talk about this family stuff around the restaurant. Its hurtful to him and he tries to just forget it. He is a Pharmacist. I was a Dental Hygienist.