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Thank you Anita! For example, I could go out and stay until the time I wanted, even stay out for the night, while my friends would have to go back home at a set hour. Mostly I was happy about it, but occasionally it didn´t feel good and I thought my parents were not preoccupied by me, so I would invent an hour that I needed to be at home. I was not a problematic teenager so i don´t know what other boundaries to speak of, but for example I remember seeing my younger sister overusing alcohol and i was so mad at my partents that they were just as if nothing happened. And I think one other was of the respect – I remember my mother allowing me to speak to her in a very disrespectful way, at some point I was just checking how far could I go.