Dear Kayla:

He may deny his anxiety but he is not denying his ADHD. Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder in children and in adults is a disorder. If you read in Wikipedia/ elsewhere, there are treatments suggested. That means that experiencing ADHD is a problem and people seek treatment for it. It means ADHD is not calm. There is distress in it.

Reads to me, with your Netflix example that he is busy pointing a finger of blame at you, keeping scores, and that you are inclined to take the blame.

Feel free to post here anytime and I will reply further if and when you post again.

anita